“How Can I Find my Soulmate?”-Take A Closer Look At Yourself
December 16, 2009 by Cath
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Are you always asking yourself, “Why can’t I find my soulmate?”. Are you presenting yourself in a manner in which your soulmate would find appealing? Are you looking for someone fun, happy, loyal and trust worthy as your soulmate? Then are YOU fun? Are you laughing enough? Loyal? Are you being free enough with yourself that they can see the real and true you?
You have to exhibit what you want in a soulmate for your soulmate to find you. Your soulmate will be attracted to you for the feelings, thoughts and emotions that you exude.
This means you will have to go out of your comfort zone and realize some personal growth. If you have discovered that you are not the best you can be and are unlikely to attract your ideal partner, then don’t despair. You are 100% responsible for yourself and your life. Now that you have made this admission, now you need to get to work. By acknowledging that this will be a lifestyle change, you are taking the first step to creating a better life for yourself.
Now it is time to get out there and do it! This is not about changing yourself… This is about becoming the BEST you can be and celebrating the essence of who you REALLY are.
First, you should make a list of all those qualities that you would admire in an ideal soulmate. Then, you need to take a real look at yourself and find those qualities you already have that would attract your ideal soulmate. Write down another list of qualities you will need to have in order to attract a person of this magnitude.
Example:
If you admire a man who is in shape and well kept, then more than likely he is not going to find an overweight, uninspired woman as a mate. So you would have to start BEING fit and healthy-minded. This can happen by you actually working out and starting to change your diet. You would have to HAVE a gym membership, put aside an hour per day in order to exercise and HAVE healthy foods in your fridge. Get the gist?
You need to make this list and check it twice.
Who do I need to BE to attract and find my soulmate? Then you fill in your answers.
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What actions should I take to fulfill my vision
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And the most important, is that list of QUALITIES you already possess that would make your ideal soulmate look at you!
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The next step of your transformation is to take one item from each list and start working on it, changing it or improving it.
Be the best of who you really are. Remember what you wrote about what you wanted for yourself and your life? This needs to become your mantra so it always stays in the forefront of your mind.
You already have special and unique qualities and characteristics that your soulmate will appreciate and that will really enhance your relationship. These are going to be your outstanding traits that you will sell yourself on.
What qualities can you maximize on?
If you are being the very best you can be, you will radiate a certain aura – a confident and happy one – which will attract your soulmate more easily to you. Never will you need to ask “where can I find my soulmate” again. When you are happy with who you are and are confident in your capabilities, you will be amazed at the people who will surround you.
Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step – MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.
