How To Find Your Soulmate
December 17, 2009 by Cath
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Knowing if the guy you have recently met, the man that sends your heart a light and creates a surge of adrenalin through your veins when he calls is really your soulmate and not just a lustful indulgence is vexing question to consider.
Often when finding love, we get swept away with the initial excitement of someone new.
Finding love, separating love and lust in the early days is difficult . To find the answer, you need to spend a lot more time with each other.
So in order to help our readers to find out ‘how to know if he is my Soulmate’, we have put together some tips to help you through this process.
1. You have defined this man in your mind before you have met him.
2. Your soul tells you that this man is right for you. There are no doubts.
3. You’re not just passionate lovers, you’re also friends. Emotional and physical attraction for one another needs to be present. True soul mates feel both types of attraction very personally; they are not mutually exclusive.
4. Within the relationship, you have stayed 100% true to yourself. If you have had to adapt yourself into someone whom you are not in order to be with the man you believe is your soulmate, then he is quite simply NOT your soulmate. If you have had to make huge sacrifices or compromises to your lifestyle, your goals and your dreams, then you are not with your soulmate. Simple as that.
5. He completely understands and supports those things in life that are the most meaningful to you, particularly your innermost desires and dreams.
6. Both of you are equally and deeply devoted to each other and your relationship, and each of you want the other’s dreams to come true.
7. You trust this man and you are both loyal to one another.
8. It’s better to be with him than without him.
9. Your love for this man is your greatest source of excitement.
10. The thought of not being with him for any extended amount of time is unimaginable.
11. You have a strong gut feeling that you are with the right man. You have eyes only for this man. If thoughts of other men come to your mind a little too frequently, it’s doubtful that you’ve found your soulmate. If you have a feeling that you are ‘settling’, then you are generally right. You are. Don’t!
12. United, you two are magic. Both of you are always there for each other, always supporting each other’s goals.
13. Your souls are destined to take the same path in life.
14. Your values are the same, and yet you are able to respect individual differences.
15.You don’t have any secrets from each other; in fact, you can’t wait to tell each other everything.
16. There are no unanswered questions about what this man is about. You truly believe that you know and understand who he really is.
17. He makes you feel amazing. You feel a sense of tranquility and confidence around him. You don’t constantly worry that he’s going to leave you and go after someone else. When he goes out, you do not think that he is looking for anyone else. Any other women in his life are okay with you – you never feel insecure.
18. There is no sense of urgency – you do not feel that you need to sleep with him or do anything else in order to keep him.
19. He makes you feel fully energized and alive.
20. He inspires you and makes you want to be a better person.
21. The two of you are a force to be reckoned with. As a team, you feel you can conquer the world. Side by side, you can accomplish anything you set your minds to.
22. You do not need him to validate you or make you feel complete.
23. Time is an important factor in determining whether this person is your soulmate. With time, you will have the benefit of shared experience. We believe that three to six months is a good indication to see whether this man is your soulmate. Seeing the way he reacts in a number of different situations is the best soulmate determiner.
Finding love is an exciting journey that everyone should enjoy. If your deepest desire is to live a fulfilling, joyful life, use these suggestions to search and find your soul mate.
































